Showing posts with label Psychology. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Psychology. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Build Trust in Your Workplace

It is a condition often found in the decline of trust between management and employees have. I do not have employees trust management, and administration staff that were difficult for you to easily customize do not change.

Trust financial crisis has made the difficult decision when jobs are important for a business that's going around and change the future. However, it was really hard to maintain the trust is more.

What is faith?


Sure there are many definitions, in this context means doing what they say they will have the spirit, is an honest and open, and create an environment where everyone works together to agree targets Does the act. I understand that many organizations are going through difficult times right now, and be open at any time, for example, you can not.

Management team to keep you, or you can build trust? Confidence at all levels of organization should be included above. Administrators, managers and analysts on a daily basis by strengthening their resolve to act.

Here in order to build confidence in the organization and personality points to consider are: -
Staff time and listen!

Staff time and listen!

Keep the promise - it is the most important. If a company says it will do something, believe that this is the time promised. For example, every year, should be reviewed annually, for notice should be agreed sary, anurty have been asked to respond! If for any reason can not promise anything, then clearly explain why.
Tell the truth - it is an obvious thing, but not always acting. Do not lie to people. Only when people lie to you, since they do not believe a word you get. If mistakes were made, then talk. Recognize mistake and I apologize. Being in advance. Your employees will respect it.
Be transparent - share information with employees as possible. I know that this is not always possible, especially when the decision takes into account a change. However, as open as possible.
Everyone equally and fairly Profile - consistency is important, so make sure that if they are equally applicable rules. Seeing things with some people "get away" to be or another way to treat skin feels bad and distrust.

In addition to the above, there people who want to believe anything about points for: -
All work as a team

All work as a team

Manage your state of mind - as relevant as possible to his mood. Change from positive to negative and non-forest trust makes a non-fixed environments.
Listen - this is a very underrated talent, and many people think they are better than they really are! For example, to understand, listen. Put on your point of view without interference or, making sure I have a long way.
Be original - do not tell anyone they're not. See through you and your team know you're pretending to be.
Say thank you - and Gambhir often as possible.
Help in a crisis - if your team is really busy, offer to lend a hand. Pick up the phone, even if only one message. Your offer of help would be appreciated.
Be available - sometimes placed in the agenda when your team can come and talk to you. This is especially important that you are more. If you start to lose contact, you can start to lose faith.
Invite comments and responses - ask the team what they think. Exchange ideas and opinions (remember to listen before you), consider what is happening. Being open is good. To provide a forum for them to remember.
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Sunday, January 29, 2012

Ways To Avoid The Pessimistic Nature To Success

Optimistic vs. Pessimistic. Someone said he was pessimistic as to think negatively about confronted with a problem. Pessimists are lazy people tend to fight for something. In fact, he had to say no to something that has not been tried.

Pessimistic nature turns out to have a great influence on his career. "Capital One is the belief that there is excess capacity," A pessimist is often lazy to learn. He lacks motivation to pursue her career. The result, when he entered the world of work, it will be difficult to get a better career, has worked for many years.

To avoid the negative things arise from the nature of the pessimists, we collect some of the advice of psychologists and the number of companies. Here are a few:

1. Eyes open, Look Around

A pessimistic tend to lack sensitivity to the surrounding environment. However, you should try to see life around. There are still many people out there who are less fortunate than you. "If you want to be grateful to look down, but if you want to see the success that has ever existed, looking up," "A pessimist might look up, to his friends who might have had a good career".

2. Socialize

If you include a pessimist, perbanyaklah society with people from diverse backgrounds. For more reports, more information can be obtained. To have a broad knowledge and can learn from others how to reduce the problems they are facing. In addition, we encourage you to share with those who you think should talk. Especially when you feel pessimistic nature began to come to you. "That's' where your friends or whoever might be able to establish ourselves,".

3. Many people read

An activity can increase your knowledge of reading. you should read this book of seasoned professionals in the issues you've ever faced. In addition, inspirational reading should know. "Reading the motivation to inspire you,".

4. Participate in Workshop

In addition to reading a book of inspiration, you can also participate in training seminars or motivation. In addition to getting a positive atmosphere, inspiring workshops make you wealthy friends and acquaintances. Here you can share and receive knowledge from experts in psychology. Interesting is not it?

5. Sure, they can!

However, the steps described above will not be useful without the conviction that you have a chance. "After all, who can motivate people to pursue a career only to themselves,". For this, we recommend that you trust in yourself that you can do all the hard work. If you do not want to change it, who else?
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Thursday, January 12, 2012

Did I marry the right person?

To direnungi ... Kalau2 within teman2 have started emerging questions ...


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In a seminar household, someone suddenly throws the audience a very common question, "How do I know if I married the right person?" Speaker Seminars see there was a large man sitting next to him so he answered "Yes .. it depends. Is the man next to you that your husband? "

In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"

"Let me answer this question is very burdensome."

Here are the answers ...

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the first moments of a relationship, you fell in love with your spouse. Phone calls are always eagerly awaited, so unfortunately missed the caresses, and so fond of his change of attitude-excited so much fun.

Fell in love with your partner is not a difficult thing. Falling in love is a very natural and spontaneous experience. No need to do anything .. So to say "fall" in love ...

People who are in love sometimes say, "I'm madly in love". Imagine the expression! As if you were just standing there doing nothing, and then suddenly something came along and happened TO YOU. Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous. But ... after several years of marriage, the euphoria of love it too will fade. This change is a natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely .. phone calls become a bother, touch is not always expected and attitudes-attitudes which besemangat not so sweet things but instead nambahin tired of existing.

The symptoms of this stage vary with each individual. But if you think about your household, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage, when you fall in love, and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

And in this situation the question "Did I marry the right person?" Began to emerge, either from you or from your spouse, or from both of them .. Why Now!

And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of love that never happens, you may begin to euphoria, the euphoria that love with others. And when the marriage finally kanda. Each partner's busy blaming it on unhappiness and look outside outlet. Various shapes and sizes for this impingement, menginkari loyalty is the most obvious. Some people turn to with his job, his hobby, a friendship, to feel bored watching TV, or the things that other flashy.

But you know what?! That the answer to this dilemma does not exist on the outside, it answers only in the marriage itself. Looking for an escape? Please. You can! Could have been or may be you are looking for an escape. Maybe then you'll feel better. But it is temporary, because after a few years you will experience the same conditions (as before in your marriage).

Due to (understand this carefully)

KEY TO SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON, BUT THE KEY IS HOW PEOPLE ARE LEARNING TO LOVE YOU FIND, AND CONTINUOUS ..!

Love is not a PASSIVE or spontaneous experience. Love WILL NEVER just happen. We will not be able to FIND love forever, but we have to work from day to day.

Correct the expression "love" Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. We have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work. Do not make mistakes for this one. Love is not MYSTERY.

There are some specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to the household running smoothly. Just as the laws of the universe (like gravity force), in a bond house there are also laws. Just as proper diet and exercise that right can make you physically stronger. Some habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If we know and apply the laws, surely we can "make" love not "FALL". Love in marriage is indeed a DECISION, not just FEELINGS ...!

We are in the world not to find the perfect person to love, BUT to learn to love people who are not perfect in a perfect manner.
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Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Why do women cry?



"When a woman cries, it does not mean he was issued a weapon terampuhnya, but it means he was issued a final weapon ..."

"When a woman cries, it does not mean he does not try to detain him, but because its defense was no longer able to stem the tears ..."

"When a woman cries, it's not because he wants to look weak, but because he was not able to pretend - pretending strong"

Why do women cry?


Because the woman is also a human being who has feelings ... We have never demanded a lot of sense ... but sometimes we look spoiled, many wants, or maybe in the eyes of men like you, we are just being troublesome ...

But please know, we still stand strong even though you've hit us with a lot of pain that plagued ... We still like the same person when you try to go away then come back and bring up ... Even though we do not care about looks, though we seem to ignore, but believe far dilubuk our hearts, we have a million prayers for you ...

Since we are destined to pair up, not to live alone ... We always seem redundant in exploring our feelings, that's why the child is always born of our womb, women ... Because God created vast space beneath our hearts to the love bernaungnya the results of our ... Because yes, again - again we are women, which God ordained us as beings who will always look weak outside but strong inside ...

Because without you knowing it, you also need us for we need you ... Life is full of trials, where many obstacles that hit because of it,

God ordained us unite to fight against all temptations ... So appreciate our presence, however small its meaning in your life ..
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